Life isn’t going as I planned, so I think it’s time to give up. I’m 22 years old and a male virgin. All my life I’ve been called ugly and fat which I am, my face is full of acne, my hair is like wire-wool and I’ve become fat because of my depression. Women laugh at me and make jokes about me, when I’m out drinking with friends or socialising. I can’t stand being this ugly any more, I want to die. Life is just a pointless game of chance and I want out. Most of all, I want to punish those who have ruined my life with their name calling. I am starting to pick songs for my funeral, I can’t stand my worthless existence. I know there is no after life or god, but I still find death to be liberty from the suffering in my life. Nothing will change, it’s pointless working on it.
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Why not do all you can, even if it doesn’t get you much of anywhere? Make the trip, trippy.
no, I love you.
and so do alot of other people, you just don’t know yet. you’re young, you still have alot to live. my friend commuted suicide a few months ago and It was so hard to go through… trust me alot if people would miss you.. please don’t do it, life WILL get better; trust me.
It sounds like nothing I can say will change your mind, so I am going to honestly and openly pray for you. I know you don’t believe in God, but He is there, and I pray that He will change your heart. You have worth, I promise you, and I hope that you can find it.
Edit: I want to reiterate and make it abundantly clear that I do not want you to end your life so prematurely. You said you have friends: talk to them. Talk to your family, talk to a counselor. Talk to someone, please.
NO JAMES !!!
Do you want to prove ‘them’ right? Everyday is a new start. Make your life what you want it to be and worry about what others are thinking or saying. If they were so smart ‘they’ would know better too.
No! Please try and focus on the things you can do, I know its so difficult when you can only see the crap aspects of your life. Things might not end up like some fairytale but your life will change…use those changes as an oppurtunity to concentrate on the things you’ve got a talent for.
no, you should definitely not.
if you’re fat, there are diets out there, and there’s treatment for acne. see a doctor about that.
don’t you have any family members who love you and are dependent on you?
you can’t get back at anyone by dying, because those who called you names wouldn’t give a damn if you commit suicide or not. it’ll probably just make them feel powerful.
my cooking teacher was extremely overweight and some of the girls, the disrespectful ones, laughed and made comments. she was truly the heaviest person i’ve ever seen. and my mother told me she was married and a mother of two. i’ve also known a man who dragged his foot, moved his arms mechanically and his face kept twisting and twitching, also married, with kids…
just go for a stroll on the street and open your eyes. see all those heavy, plain looking men/women with spouses. there are millions of people out there. if you really want to find your soul mate, you will.
just remember, the only one stopping you is you. by the way, have you considered adopting a dog or cat? it helps for depression.
Seems like you take things too seriously. You are unsatisfied with your appearance? Then change it! Go to a dermatologist to cure your acne. Use a good conditioner for your hair. And join a gym or some weight reducing programme. You can find info on all this on the net, depending upon your location. Don’t take the coward’s way out! Go and face the music. And it’s not always the slim, tall and handsome men women go after. They also go for sensitive men with a positive attitude towards life and a good sense of humor. Why not try to be that guy? Those who put you down are not worth anything. There are more and better fishes in the pond!
And you have to have some positive points about you. Maybe you’re a good singer, writer or anything? And it seems like you have some pretty awesome friends. So once in a while, just sit down and count your blessings. That always helps boost your morale.
And go join some sports team. That will not only help you get rid of your fat, but also provide you with a hobby.
Hope this helps. Just remember, think positive. And keep smiling
Dude you are young. Stop trying to meet the standards of others. What do you want to be?
Do you want to lose weight? Go out on walks, cut back on the junk food.
Do you want a clear face? Clean your face with hydroglyceric soap (beauty secret and very cheap).
You’re a virgin? Guess what a lot of people are at that age. No one necessarily wants to settle down with someone who’s slept with every Tom Dick and Harry. So many people have aids so abstinence is the best thing you can do. Be proud of yourself.
You have a lot a head of you, stop feeling unworthy and/or sorry for yourself.
No one is going to pat your back.
You gotta do for yourself and when you need help people will more in likely be there.
Chin up! Get in there and get what you want!