I met this guy on a dating site on Good Friday (holiday). we talked for a week before we went out. The second day he added me to his facebook. We are still on each others facebook. We have had two dates. The chemistry is strong between both of us from our past two dates. However our last date was on May 7th. The following week he had to go out of town for four days for a funeral. Why four I don’t know. Any way, We had made plans for that following saturday to go out for our third date when he got back. However he didn’t make any mention of it. So I brought it up to him that Thursday. he texts me back that night saying lets go here and here, I’ll pick you up. I agreed to it. This past saturday, (yesterday) He texts me in the morning telling me he had to cancel because he got a high fever and that he was very sorry. I told him no prob we can always reschedule. I haven’t heard from him since. He has never been a big talker, I have always had to be the one to start the conversation. We are both in our 30’s. I checked on the dating site and it says he hasn’t been active on it for 2 weeks. Has he lost interest or whats his deal? I have never dealt with a guy like this before. He also had the chance to meet both my folks and his folks know about me. heck they are also on his facebook. Has he lost interest or what? I’m getting mixed signals here.
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It is hard to tell if he has lost interest because you are always texting. What ever happened to just picking up the phone and calling someone and getting a straight answer direct. He may be telling you the truth about being sick or he may be simply losing interest, either way back off a bit and dont text or call for at least a couple of weeks, if he doesnt contact you then you wont need to call, you will have your answer.
Maybe actually got sick. You just need to talk to him that’s all. But maybe hes the shy type?