So recently my ex-girlfriend and I broke up. (It was semi-mutual, but more me that broke it off after I found out some stuff that will come in later in the story). And I really want her back because she was really one in a million (even though many won’t think so after the story).
So about 3 weeks ago we broke up after about 3 crazy days. We went out for two and a half months before then. But basically, she went to visit a best friend (guy friend) who was graduating marine basic training. All the while I was at a funeral (for my great grandma who passed) and I told her I would be there, so while I’m at the funeral, this guy is flirting with my girlfriend who told him to stop. But he kept at it, trashing me while I wasn’t there, and it was sinking in with her. Since I wasn’t available to talk with at the time I couldn’t do anything. So he kept at this for the next couple of days, and they were spending a lot of time together (While I was still with my family after we burried my grandma). So I find out, that they were going to plan to go out while I was away at my own basic training (for the air force) and I would have been left in the dust, I caught on and confronted her, and basically everything fell apart after that. People will say she’s not a good person, but she really is, it’s just that D*****bag friend of hers that ruined everything, so he could have her. And now I’m left pissed, angry, extremely depressed all because this happened while I was at a freakin funeral.
Now she wants to be friends, so I bit at it a little, partially to be on somewhat good terms. And to be honest it makes me sick, knowing that they’re together. Because that guy is really scum and took something because he wanted it and didn’t think of anyone but himself. Now, here’s my problem. I want her back, but I won’t stoop as low as that guy. But I want her to feel bad for actually believing the guy (because he said he changed, because he was really immature before) and basically want her running back to me. The problem is she WANTS me to move on, so obviously if I do that she wins because then she won’t feel guilty about all this since I ended up with someone. That’s not what I want. So what is the best course of action to take, to get her back? Do I just stop talking, now that I’m on good terms? or what do it do?
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Shes over it.
Once trust it broken, its broken for good never again will it be 100% good again.
Dont let her get to you. Calm down and stop being so irratated, no one wants to stick around if there not intrested.
You cannot make someone love you or have feelings for you.
Its a lesson & was ment to be, what more is there to do when shes not begging for you back?
give it another shot if that dosnt work then its over.
Talk to her apoligize for the drama
but dude if shes okay with it, its because she wasnt intrested
MOVE ON!!!
i know you want to be with her, and yes you think she is a good person but after 2 months she leaves you for him?
yes it was a dick move of him to do that but he wouldnt have been able to if she didnt let him, its not just him, its her two.
and she is a girl, girls never want their ex’s to move on, im a girl i would no.
she says that so you think she dosnt feel bad
if you really want her to come crawling back, tell her you will be her friend, get another girlfriend and tell her all about it as often as possible. soon enough she will realize, he is a douch, you were good, and she will come.
If you want a bs answer I could be nice and tell you the nice thing you could do to get her back. But Im goin to be honest. SO here goes:
How old are you guys. Any female that allows herself to bounce back and forth between you two is not very smart. Im not saying shes a bad person, Im saying she’s not really girlfriend material. Maybe shes not trying to be serious of maybe she doesn’t like you like that anymore. But a girl like that is easy if she allows herself to get TAKEN so chances are you could get her back easily, and then someone else (may or may not be the same guy) will come along and take her again. SLORE!…