I’m worried and scared. She says “no one an tell her that she does not want this because she knows what she wants and that is to be free.” I have told her that I have things to say that WILL stop her. But it will be too late when I say them. I can’t stand this to happen. I have written like 5 songs on the matter and she still doesn’t think. I have till february… to save a life. Please help me what do I say and do? Oh and she tells me that I am to sing at her funeral and I can’t cope with the though that she has these “plans” she told childline they tracked her doen and are tryimg to stop her but she is refusing. Please help me…
Thanks
~ Ty x
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If you killed yourself you will change somebody’s world. That”s right. They will see everything differently. Just hearing your name will burn their mind with memories. They wont be able to go near where you lived, even your town will hold memories. Listening to the radio they”ll hear that song, remember, that song you sand with them once ? They’ll step past your locker everyday and wonder why you are not there. Why are you not there?? Do you want to be responsible for your family members, the people who love you , crying every night ? For your sisters or brothers losing part of who they are ? Your suicide is going to effect most deeply to those who care about you. That”s not right.
One of your friends may break down, and just like you, their world will be dark. The pain you are in is awful, but why pass it on to hundreds of people around you, when you could try your hardest to work through it? Your family will be paranoid. Suddenly everyone will be talking about them. Do you want to known as ‘the kid who killed themselves? People you never knew will be crying when they hear what you’ve done. Yes, they will be affected. Everyone around you will stop and think ‘Was there something I could have done?’ Suddenly the people of your world are dying with guilt. All those little hints you gave, they’ll remember them. Oh yes, and it will torture them all the time. Your friends will think of suicide. You closest friends are likely to go in depression like the one that claimed your life. How will they cope, without you? This will crush them for the rest of their lives.
And let”s not forget the people who will plan your funeral. Your closest friends and family picking out songs for you, photos of you. Crying all night before, and the entire of the funeral. And all the nights after. In fact they will cry now more than you ever did. Could they have saved you? They”ll be angry. Oh yes. Why didn”t you tell them? They loved you. And now it”s too late. They’ll be angry with you because they know, they know you could have gotten through it. Then they”ll be angry with themselves because they may have been able to save you if only they knew. And one day, one day years from now, they”ll remember you. They will all still remember you. The girl that sat up the front of your class; she’ll remember you. The bus driver you saw every morning; he’ll remember you. That little girl you sat with on the bus once, the kid you leant money to at the shop, all your sibling”s friends, the people that you don’t see, but that see you everyday they will all remember you. And every single one of them will wonder, why?
say something along those lines? or call the police/hosptial about it, or you can tell her parents, they will do anything to stop their child from dying.
If she called a help line , it is a sign that she is reaching out for help ,
which is good.
as a friend you got to show her you care and will be there no matter what.
there are probably alot going through her head and she doesnt know how to fix it all. so the best way out is to end it all.
emotional pain, hurts more than phystical pain , cause you can’t seem to make it go away.
let her know you need her in your life. and you would be really hurt if she were gone.
and you would not know how to make your pain go away.
Call 911 and tell her that she keeps threatening to commit suicide it is a punishable crime but you may be able to safe a life.
Tell her all the wonderful things in life & how great she is.
Sure,she has the power to end her own life, but it’s a pretty dumb solution. I have the power to burn my own house down, but doesn’t mean I should.
Suicide is the permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Besides, as for ‘freedom’?? Death is ultimate lack of freedom! You forfeit your freedom to ever do anything of any kind ever again.
If you can’t stand your life as it is now, to the point that you’d rather be dead, than you are already the most free person in the world! You have nothing to lose, so no reason not to try anything you want!
Run away, join the circus, be a hobo, become a freelance super spy, make stupid faces at people on the subway for spare change…literally anything you can think of!!!
If, after you have tried everything to find something to make life tolerable, you still prefer death… at least you can honestly say you exhausted every option available to you.
She is really selfish for putting this burden on you. If she cared for you she would not be doing this to you knowing that it hurts you. And if she was really wanting to do it she would have done it already. Its for the attention that she knows she will get from you and others. You need to be straight with her. Tell her she’s stupid for wasting a perfectly good life. Many people die everyday and they don’t chose to wither it be from murder, being sick, ect. They would have loved more time on earth and she is just throwing it all away probably for a really stupid reason. Tell her that she should not solve a non permanent problem with a permanent solution.