I have this friend that likes to cause drama. I met all of my friends through her.They were friends with her first. I’ve known my friend since we were very little.
We don’t live in the same town and she’d get upset if I were in her town visiting her friends and did not include her.
She invites us to all her parties and has always made an effort to include me in things.
Her friends & I don’t always want her to tag along. We don’t want to hurt her feelings and are afraid there will be drama so we lie to her.
My mom passed away and she was the only one of my friend’s to actually show up to my mom’s funeral all my friends had class. I appreciated that and spent some one-on-one time with her afterwords.
I invited her out for my birthday because I was afraid she’d find out. She had surgery and couldn’t drive so I figured she wouldn’t be able to get a ride and make it anyway. Shockingly she got a ride with my cousin. I had to come up with an excuse so both of them couldn’t come. Neither one did.
She then invited me to her birthday 2 weeks later and we were going to go but….then she canceled last min. Turns out she went out with my cousin and 2 other friends to a bar.
She was having a Christmas get together and I was honest with her. I told her I was going to RSVP late because I wanted to see who else was going to be there. The plan was if my friends were there I’d go. My friends all agreed to go so we could all hang out. I told her this then suddenly the party got canceled
She found out that I’d been over her friends house in her town for a party. Her friend didn’t include her Apparently SOMEHOW she found out. Not sure how she finds these things out but she always does.
She wrote on my wall “actions speak louder then words don’t they” then deleted me off facebook.
Called her friend who was throwing the party told her she wanted nothing to do with her and all her other friends she wanted nothing to do with them either.
We were having another party tomorrow we figured we might as well tell her so she doesn’t get mad. We knew she had plans with her family tomorrow so we figured she’d say no.
Well it turns out she’s not going with her family now she’s going to New York with her OTHER friends. She didn’t include us!!! What the he**??!!! We told her if plans change to come by. She said they won’t change and hung up the phone on us.
I don’t understand why she’s so upset??
what a drama queen!! Am I better off without her?
Was I in the wrong??
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no you were fine
put yourself in her shoes if no one liked you bc ur a drama starter and they avoides you and you knew that and you care for them anyways and people didnt want to hang with you wudnt you be sad and then you think your friend is going somewhere and you wanted her to comeover and then you find out she was with friends you wud be upset she is mad she feels back stabbed
No, you did the right thing.
She in fact WAS being a drama queen.
You deserve better friends then her. Dude, even her friends agree with you! That obviously means something. Ignore her. Don’t try to make her become your friend again. She’s ignoring you now. The best thing you can do is just forget about it. She choice her path, now you choose yours. (sounds like a movie, right?) Life is hard. There are mean people. You can live.
You did the right thing. Don’t let her get to you.
Good luck!!
-Jackie
You’re both wrong. If you don’t want to be friends anymore, simply tell her. But don’t lie, cancel parties and hang out with other people, and do shady things. It hurts worse.