My sister died I wasn’t informed until coronor was on the way. It took me 2 minutes to get there. She was at her boyfriends. When I arrived the officers didn’t want to let me see her and they didn’t disclose any information to me. All was asked was for a brief medical history. I asked to speak to someone but they said they had all info needed. This happenned between 1am and 2 am I then left at 7am and went to coronors office to request an autopsy which he said he didn’t see a need for one bc she OD d I said my family was on the way and would want one.I then left I went by her boyfriends house and aske what was going on he wouldn’t let me in. I said my family was on the way and don’t do anything or call me if you plan on doing anything. Well about 9;30 am I tried calling him he didn’t answer he called me about a half hour later saying he was at a funeral home I said What! Where are you at ? He told me and I said I am on my way. When I arrived I said to the funeral director you’ll need to wait on my family He did not acknowlodge me and turned and kept talking to her boyfriend. I said I am her sister and you’ll need to wat on my family. But they did not.By the time my family got there the funeral was taking place and my sis was buried 34 hours after her death. They didn’t even acknowledge my mother or father and gave the cross to her boyfriend. They had a very abusive relationship. I have been everywhere trying to find someone to help us and cannot yet. Her death is very suspisious and there are lots of doubts. Her boyfriend was drunk the whole time this took place. The coronor didn’t even respect our wishes even with bruising on her body.Come to find out the funeral director has been knowing him for a long time but this is putting my family and I through alot and ther has got to be something done my sis is gone now but Isure don’t want another family to have to go what we are going through. A nd we are wanting a full autopsy to find out her exact cause of death. Can anyone help
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That doesn’t sound right–a boyfriend is not next of kin (a husband is closer than a sister).
Hire a lawyer, You can sue and have the body exhumed so an autopsy can be performed, If you think there was foul play involved, this should be done quickly.
I find this whole story is missing information. The funeral home would never have accepted the boyfriend as the next of kin without some documentation. By the same token, the Coroner should have ordered an autopsy for any situation such as this.
So what are we missing, or is this all just a fabrication?
Your family should have put a stop to everything that took place. Family comes first, not the abusive boyfriend. Not a boy friend at all, abusive or not.
You need to get a lawyer to fight through all that has happen when your sis died.
This is too much to handle here. You must at least talk to a lawyer and give the lawyer to full story.
So very sorry to hear about your sis’s death.
A boyfriend doesn’t have any legal grounds, the family does since you are next of kin.