I met her about a month ago and we texted all the time and talked on the phone once in awhile, we have a ton of things in common and we are great for each other. We live an hour apart and we both dont have vehicles to drive to see each other (we are both 18 and are going to get vehicles for our graduation presents) and we have busy schedule’s so its hard to see each other. We went to the movies on friday and I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes. We talked like we normally do on saturday and then sunday she talked less and was kind of in a bad mood the whole day. Then yesterday we texted a little bit in the morning but she was in a really bad mood because one of her friend killed herself and she didnt want to go to the funeral. She told me to change the topic so I asked what she has planned for today and she then texted me back saying that I suck at picking topics and told me to go away. So i didnt texted her at all yesterday until the evening I just said hi but she didnt reply and then this morning I texted her good morning, like I always do but she hasnt texted or been on facebook or anything. I’m starting to get worried about her and I have no idea what to do? Please help me!
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She is going through a hard time, and she’s probably confused about alot of things. The way she is treating you isn’t fair either, so you have to decide what you’re going to do.
Don’t be abrupt about it at all, just tell her that her ignoring you and being distant was kind of hurtful, and you would have liked if she would have just told you what was going on.
People deal with things different ways and maybe hers is to become distant and get away from people, but if she’s in a relationship, she needs to realize that she can’t be completely selfish.
If she continues ignoring you and being in a bad mood then it’s probably not going to work out, and you should probably find someone who is closer to you and will be able to treat you well.
You can’t just expect the girl to become happy if her friend killed herself. And asking What she plans on doing was a bad choice. Support her, tell her its going to be ok, if she doesnt want to talk about that ask if she would like to be alone for awhile. Txt her saying that ur sorry for her loss, that u care about her, and when she feels better to txt u back.
its not the end of the world, this girl is not your life, don’t get so paranoid
there is nothing you can do.
just wait.