My Friend Died 2 Months Ago….?

so my friend died 2 months ago on her birthday in her sleep. i started to move on a school is normal now but i still think about her everyday. i want to remember her but move on. like i want to think less about her but never forget her because the more i think about her the more….idk its hard to explain
i still have the card from the funeral service i plan to NEVER throw it out but i think its time to give it to my mom and put it in my “special” box.
adivce on this????????? other opinions??

2 Comments

1. I simply am not here says:

   June 19, 2011 at 8:18 am

   The number one thing I’ve always thought helps is just ask yourself “If she could see me now, would she want me to mourning over her for this long” That answer is no. It’s normal to grieve, but 2 months is more then enough. Just keep that as inspiration. Let her live through you! She would want you to be happy!
   I don’t know if you believe in an afterlife, but if you do, just remember that you WILL see her again someday.
   I’m sorry for your loss. I really am. Message me/add me as a contact if you want anyone to talk to. I’ll listen.
   Good luck
2. nemuel_8 says:

   June 19, 2011 at 11:34 am

   Morrie said, “Death ends life not a relationship.” You have to move on so that the soul of your friend can move on too. The more you hold her memories, the more it difficult for her to continue her journey in the other world.