Everything typed happened from months ago until tonight.
This is an incredibly long story. First, I am Eric and The girl is Brianna. The enemy is Jeffrey. My friend is Amanda. We all go to the same school. I am not using last names.
One night last year I was on facebook and I had a new friend request. Brianna. I accepted. I never really knew her last year but I thought I seen her in the hallways before because the profile picture looked familiar. That was at the end of that year. Now a year later I was still on facebook and I did a like my status for a tbh (To be honest). She liked my status. I wrote tbh we should talk more. She liked it and commented ” yeah, IM me” (instant message) I did and we started talking. I am not going to write every single message. Later we actually because really good friends. I complemented her a lot and she did the same to me. We got to know each other a lot better. We connected. One night I was talking to Amanda, another great friend of mine and she was helping me with Brianna. I formed a crush on Brianna and I really liked her. Eventually me and Amanda planned that me and her were going to talk at school and I might ask her out. That was on a Friday. That Friday night facebook said she was in a relationship. Brianna is in a relationship with Jeffrey, this annoying younger kid on my bus. The one I have always hated with a passion, grinning of the thought of his funeral. They were together for a while until he tried to get sympathy from her and lied to her saying I was going to jump him. She broke up with him then they got back together the next day. Later I talked to Brianna and I found out she likes me, in a more than friends her being my girlfriend way. Finding this out after she broke up with Jeffrey the second time. This time he cheated on her with some other girl. A couple days later in the beginning of October we started dating. I really liked her but she said she wanted to be single for a while. We broke up at the end of October. A couple days later shes back in a relationship with Jeffrey! My cousin Hunter told me she saw them at the Bonfire at the school and they were kissing. Today I heard him talking on the bus to his friends about how hes cheating on her again! If I told her she wouldn’t believe me and think I’m lying. He already started more rumors saying I was going to beat him up. This kid is getting the best of me! Me and Brianna are slowly drifting unfortunately and were not talking as much. I miss her but I don’t like getting played. Tonight was the night of the school dance and I didn’t go. I lied saying I had to clean my room but I really didn’t want to see Brianna and Jeffrey dancing together. I sat home for 2.5 hours sitting on the computer. I hate him. He’s a liar. I started listening to screamo music recently and I think about suicide a lot. I want someone to talk to but to just keep it between us. Thanks for reading, thank you very much.
- Eric.
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Well i can talk to you about it if you want. I don’t really know how much to help but i would be more then glad to talk to you. Just send me a email when you want.
suicide is not the answer, it sounds like you are a lower classmen in highschool so ill use that as my approach. this jeffrey guy sounds like a complete jerk. if you want Brianna to be yours then show her how much you care that jeffrey is treating her badly. maybe she got back with jeffery to keep you “safe” since he is starting rumors. get her alone and have a deep convorsation with her about jeffery, get to know him from her perspective. if you are willing, tell her that you dont care what happens to you just as long as she is happy (girls love hearing that). you have been faced with a mission, to get Brianna out of the endless heartbreak loop with jeffrey, that is all the more reason you should not even consider suicide. good luck
OMG! I feel so bad!!!!! I know how you feel! I’ve been in a similar situation.. Just get through it and TRUST ME it will get better. Listen to rain with piano music. I know it might sound stupid but its the most relaxing thing in the world! Just clear your mind for a moment. Stop thinking about suicide cause you shouldn’t kill yourself permanently for a temporary problem. You will be glad in the future, when you have an amazing wife and family, and you will look back on this and think, “Wow i’m glad i didn’t kill myself. Look at what i would be missing out on.”
Find other friends to talk to! And if you can’t, email me at sammyb3737@yahoo.com, if you need to vent. I’m here for you, mostly because i know what you’re going through! You are probably an amazing guy and someday, someone will love you and not leave you for some “Jeffrey” guy. Wait for the right girl and don’t kill yourself over someone who wouldn’t kill themselves for you.
Thanks for speaking your thoughts before you did anything you would regret!!
I hope you listen to my opinion on all this!
OK, I understand you’re upset about all of this but you can’t sit around wishing you could die just because your ex got with your worst enemy again because no offense but there are people out there who have it MUCH WORSE than you do and who are TRUELY suicidal, and I actually personally know a couple of them! Just thank God that you have good health and a good home and you can actually go to school! Because there are so many people out there who go through starvation, rape, child abuse, poverty etc everyday and are genuinely suicidal and with Jeffrey, you shouldn’t go hating on him because your just obviously giving him the attention he wants and it’s a sin to hate someone I mean I know people who are much more vicious to me than this Jeffrey kid is to you and i would never hate on any of them because Jesus taught me to love them. I’m not saying that you’re a bad person; I’m just saying that it’s not good to be feeling so much hatred about something as little as this. I mean in a few years, I promise you that when you’ll look back at all this, you’re going to be thinking why you even did this, you know? I’m not saying that you should forget all of this, because (don’t get me wrong buddy) I totally support and respect your feelings for this Brianna girl, and I honestly agree that you are a much better boyfriend to her, but you should really calm down a little, OK? I feel bad for her too that the poor girl is being treated like dirt by this lowlife, and I honestly wish she was with you too buddy, but right now I suggest you sit tight and let things happen as they come. No, i don’t think you should tell her that Jeffrey is cheating again, because it’s her problem that she broke up with you and that she trusts this little monster, but just wait and see what happens. And if she never returns to you, then I suggest you move on. I’m very sorry about all this and I hope you feel better please email me at
nadiacristinasaleh@yahoo.com if you ever need anything. Please answer mine too when you have the timehttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…