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How Do I Explain To Them Why They Aren’t In My Wedding?

I have 3 bridesmaids right now. I asked my child hood best friend, my best friend (that stuck around) from middle/high school & my work best friend. My fiance wanted things even. So he asked his 2 best friends & my brother to be his groomsman. 3 & 3.
If we would have got engaged & married 2 years sooner it would have been a different story.
I had 2 best friend from high school. Friend #1 She is always about herself. To be honest the last time I saw her was xmas 2009. & it wasn’t planned we ran into each other at a bar. (she lied & said she wasn’t coming home that weekend) We have texted/facebook messaged a few times (under 10 messages since then) Now she is coming back from college. She has been spamming my facebook & cell phone with message to hang out & get together ect…She has never asked wedding plans. Or asked to see my ring. Didn’t show up for my fiances fathers funeral & forgot my birthday last year. My fiance hates her!
Friend #2. She has been my best friend since Kindergarden. We used to do EVERYTHING together!! But she got pregnant right out of high school. To a super big druggie loser. Got married. To be honest she has to hide that we talk from him. (I’m the only 1 that asks why the hell are you working 70 hours a week while he sits at home or you takes your car & you don’t know where he is for days at a time!!) He has grounded her from me!! So we rarely talk. She told me that she doesn’t care & we are allowed to talk again after about 9 months of only talking once. (threw text)
Both are hinting around NOW (6 months before our wedding) who my bridesmaids are. & asking wedding plans. ( friend #1 isn’t invited to our wedding)
Should I even bother with either relationship? Let along explain why they aren’t bridesmaids?


2 Comments

  1. smile says:

    you shouldn’t have to explain anything to them. either tell them who the bridesmaids are, or ignore the question. you have nothing to hide from them, and nothing to explain. they have no right to demand that you give them reasons.

  2. Earl says:

    ignore them for about 15 years or so to think of a good excuse why they werent in your4 wedding. then say hi in 15 years and give them your excuse!!
    Love,
    Le Docteur d’Amour

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