my best friend is going out with a guy only 3 months..she ditched all her friends for him..i only see her when hes not around and as soon as hes there shes gone…shes engaged to him already…only rings me coz no1 else wants her & im sick of it too…she wont come to my sisters baby shower because its girls only…no1 elses boyfriends are allowed either…and she wont spend time with us for a couple of hours…i dread to see her number come up on my fone as ino shes coming out…she changed completely for him…their planning to have kids & move out too …i dont know whats going on…if they break up she has no one to turn to and i have told her that…only 3 months together..hes 18 shes 19….he wouldnt go to his grandads funeral because she wouldnt go with him…everyone is sick of her…what can you guys see happening in the long run…should i stop been used by her coz no1 else wants her
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Bless your heart, you are a very good friend to have, all you can do is continue to be a good friend, you cannot control her or anyone , maybe you can invite her out to lunch and express your feeling about your friendship, she has obviously made up her mind about who she wants to spend her time with so maybe you can sit on the side line and root for her, you know she is moving to fast with the guy, time will tell and she is gona need a friend, maybe before the Christmas holidays are over, you know what a strain those are, so be patient and enjoy life. Meet some new friends and let her fall on her face, don’t try to get involved, or she might find something to resent you for ,