This is the situation. An immediate grandparent suddenly passed on just a few days before a close friend’s wedding. A Christian funeral is conducted. However, the friend’s wedding will be directly after the funeral and conducted according to customary (Daoist/Buddhist/Chinese tradition) style. We’ve planned way ahead to attend the wedding. What will you do? Can you attend the wedding?

Questions like these are always hard to answer Friscat. I have studied many many religions around the world and have learned a great deal about differnt world religions. My only suggestion for you is the same as the one that I give everyone who ask me what to do concerning certain riligous ceremonies and that is: Do what you feel is right, do what makes you feel comfortable. The riligion that you choose to follow or respect should never make you feel uncomfortable. Follow your heart. Good Luck Friend.
are you scared of getting struck by lightening? yes, you can go to both!… Unless you are more worried about not feeling up to the wedding directly after a funeral – which is understandable.
I wasn’t invited.
But you can
WHERE do you morons get this crap?
yeah i do if i invited